<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="0.92"> <channel><title>Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</title><link>http://grahamstoney.com</link> <description>Set Yourself Free!</description> <lastBuildDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 03:30:47 +0000</lastBuildDate> <docs>http://backend.userland.com/rss092</docs> <language>en</language><item><title>The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle</title> <description><![CDATA[<br /><table cellpadding="0"class="amazon-product-table"><tr><td valign="top"><div class="amazon-image-wrapper" style="float:left; padding : 0 20px 0 20px;"> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAIR3UXPU7Y7GQQPAQ%26tag%3Dwwwgrahamston-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D1577314808"  target="amazonwin" ><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41zEC8ehWqL._SL160_.jpg" class="amazon-image amazon-image" title="The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle" alt="41zEC8ehWqL. 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Many of us spend relatively little time actually being connected to the present moment, which is ironic because the present moment is the only one we have available to us. The past has already happened and cannot be changed, and the future hasn&#8217;t happened yet; we have relatively little real</p></td></tr></table></div></td></tr></table><p>&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/spirituality/power-eckhart-tolle" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/spirituality/power-eckhart-tolle">The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/spirituality/power-eckhart-tolle</link> </item> <item><title>Into The Wild</title> <description><![CDATA[<br /><table cellpadding="0"class="amazon-product-table"><tr><td valign="top"><div class="amazon-image-wrapper" style="float:left; padding : 0 20px 0 20px;"> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Into-Wild-Emile-Hirsch/dp/B000ZN802W%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAIR3UXPU7Y7GQQPAQ%26tag%3Dwwwgrahamston-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3DB000ZN802W"  target="amazonwin" ><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51f34GSeBXL._SL160_.jpg" class="amazon-image amazon-image" title="Into The Wild" alt="51f34GSeBXL. 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If you don&#8217;t want to know what happens, stop reading now!</em></p><p>I was profoundly moved by this film directed by Sean Penn. Starring Emile Hirsch as Christopher McCandless, it tells the true story Christopher&#8217;s journey of self-discovery leading into the Alaskan wilderness. This film hit me hard, and I found it hugely cathartic.</p></td></tr></table></div></td></tr></table><p>&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/emotions/into-the-wild" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/emotions/into-the-wild">Into The Wild</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/emotions/into-the-wild</link> </item> <item><title>Comparison of WordPress Email Newsletter Subscription Plugins</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> When I was migrating my blog from Joomla! to <a href="http://wordpress.org/">WordPress</a>, I investigated a bunch of different automatic newsletter generation options. I concluded that <a href="http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/mailpress/">MailPress</a> was the best fit for my requirements. Here is a summary of what I found along the way.</p><h2>Requirements</h2><p>Under Joomla! I used <a href="http://vemod.unimatrix.net/">Vemod News Mailer</a> to automatically mail new content to subscribers, and I wanted the same functionality under <a href="http://wordpress.org/">WordPress</a>. My basic requirements, prioritized from most-to-least important, were for a solution that could:</p><ol><li>Automatically email new posts to all 	subscribers</li><li>Send HTML</li><li>Bulk Import subscribers from CSV file</li><li>Export subscribers in a CSV file</li><li>Support throttling to avoid mail server rate 	limitations</li><li>Capture Name in addition to Email address</li><li>Allow links in HTML</li><li>Send a personalized email per article, Title 	as Subject</li><li>Include links generated by the <a href="http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/seo-automatic-links/">SEO Smart 	Links</a> &#38; <a href="http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/seo-ultimate/">SEO Ultimate</a> plugins</li><li>Include a simple</li></ol><p>&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/comparison-wordpress-email-newsletter-subscription-plugins" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/comparison-wordpress-email-newsletter-subscription-plugins">Comparison of WordPress Email Newsletter Subscription Plugins</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/comparison-wordpress-email-newsletter-subscription-plugins</link> </item> <item><title>How to Migrate a Website to a New Hosting Service Without any Downtime</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> I recently migrated one of my websites to a different hosting service. If you have a blog or website that you want to move, you can follow the same process to do so without any downtime for your visitors.</p><p>For the past couple of years, my <a href="http://joomla.org/">Joomla!</a>-based engineering website <a href="http://greatengineering.net/">GreatEngineering.net</a> has been hosted at <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/siteground">SiteGround</a>. Since creating it I&#8217;ve built 3 other websites, all hosted on <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/ixwebhosting">IX Web Hosting</a> because they have the best deal on multiple site hosting I could find. I use <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/ixwebhosting">IX Web Hosting</a> to host these sites on shared IP addresses, and Go Daddy for the domain registrations. This is the most cost-effective solution for hosting multiple sites that I&#8217;ve come across.</p><p>Since my hosting account at <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/siteground">SiteGround</a> was due for renewal, I decided to migrate the site to IX Web Hosting. This saved me the cost of renewing on <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/siteground">SiteGround</a>,&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/migrate-website-hosting-service-downtime" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/migrate-website-hosting-service-downtime">How to Migrate a Website to a New Hosting Service Without any Downtime</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/blogging/migrate-website-hosting-service-downtime</link> </item> <item><title>Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton</title> <description><![CDATA[<br /><table cellpadding="0"class="amazon-product-table"><tr><td valign="top"><div class="amazon-image-wrapper" style="float:left; padding : 0 20px 0 20px;"> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Radical-Honesty-New-Revised-Transform/dp/0970693842%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAIR3UXPU7Y7GQQPAQ%26tag%3Dwwwgrahamston-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0970693842"  target="amazonwin" ><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/31VGVcR9oNL._SL160_.jpg" class="amazon-image amazon-image" title="Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton" alt="31VGVcR9oNL. 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The author puts the boot straight into the curse of  moralism as the cause of our obsessive self-critical thinking and  resulting inability to be free to be ourselves, and act instinctively  instead of regimentally. He cites two modern-day institutions as prime  examples that perpetuate moralism: lawyers and the legal system, and the  Catholic church; both of which are rich sources of clients in</p></td></tr></table></div></td></tr></table><p>&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/communication/radical-honesty-by-brad-blanton.html" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/communication/radical-honesty-by-brad-blanton.html">Radical Honesty by Brad Blanton</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/communication/radical-honesty-by-brad-blanton.html</link> </item> <item><title>Life Coach Training with Beyond Success</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> If you&#8217;re interested in training to become a Life  Coach, or in having a Life Coach or mentor, you might be interested in  my experience of the Life Coach training coursre run by BeyPond Success.</p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/beyondsuccesslogo.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-276" title="Beyond Success logo" src="http://grahamstoney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/beyondsuccesslogo.jpg" alt="beyondsuccesslogo Life Coach Training with Beyond Success" width="57" height="97" /></a>I first heard Paul Blackburn from <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/links/beyondsuccess">Beyond Success</a> speak at a <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/links/tgr">Think and Grow Rich</a> event run by Stuart Zadel, back in July 2007. At the time, I had been  suffering from Chronic Fatigue for about 4 months, and was feeling very  anxious, agitated, exhausted, and desperate about my future. Having  visited a bunch of doctors with no success, I didn&#8217;t know why I was ill  or what to do about it. I was beginning to worry about how I was going  to be able to earn money again in the future. I had burned out rather  spectacularly from my Engineering career, and although I had plenty of  available job offers the&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/life-coaching/life-coach-training-with-beyond-success.html" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/life-coaching/life-coach-training-with-beyond-success.html">Life Coach Training with Beyond Success</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/life-coaching/life-coach-training-with-beyond-success.html</link> </item> <item><title>Communication, Public Speaking, and Leadership Skills Development at Toastmasters</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> I&#8217;ve concluded that our ability to communicate authentically with  other people is the most important life skill that we can possess. We  often spend a great deal of our education learning how to analyse,  think, solve problems, and understand how things work; but tend to  downplay the importance of subjects that teach us how to communicate.  The ability to communicate, inspire and influence other people is also a  key leadership skill. Whether in business, relationships, or just in  our personal lives, our ability to communicate our thoughts, feelings  and ideas to other people is absolutely crucial to our success&#8230; and  ultimately our happiness.</p><p><a href="http://toastmasters.org/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-345" title="Toastmasters International Logo" src="http://grahamstoney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/ToastmastersLogo-300x266.jpg" alt="Globe with Gavels and Toastmaster International" width="300" height="266" /></a>For the past couple of years, I&#8217;ve been improving my communication and leadership skills as a member of <a href="http://chatswoodtm.org.au/" target="_blank">Chatswood Communicators Toastmasters club</a>.   I have to admit that I wasn&#8217;t really thinking of becoming a world-class  communicator when I first came across Toastmasters. In fact,&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/communication/communication-public-speaking-and-leadership-skills-development-at-toastmasters.html" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/communication/communication-public-speaking-and-leadership-skills-development-at-toastmasters.html">Communication, Public Speaking, and Leadership Skills Development at Toastmasters</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/communication/communication-public-speaking-and-leadership-skills-development-at-toastmasters.html</link> </item> <item><title>Why I use Exetel for my ADSL2+ and Telephone</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> Last time I looked, <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/out/exetel">Exetel</a> had the cheapest deal on combined ADSL2+ &#38; telephone bundles in Australia.</p><p>Six months ago I decided it was time to upgrade from ADSL1 to ADSL2+.  Those YouTube videos kept stalling, and I was building more and more  websites so I wanted a faster Internet link. At the time, I was with  Optus on a Telstra ADSL1 line, and Optus had just come out with their  &#8216;yes&#8217; Fusion ADSL2+ bundle deal. But it looked pretty expensive, I was  tired of waiting on hold for Optus customer service, and they refused to  waive the 24-month contract period even though I was switching from  another plan and had been their customer for over 5 years. So I decided  it was time to shop around.</p><p>After weeks of looking at advertisements, comparing prices, surfing  the &#8216;net for the best deal I could find, a friend recommended&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/money/exetel-adsl2-telephone-cheapest" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/money/exetel-adsl2-telephone-cheapest">Why I use Exetel for my ADSL2+ and Telephone</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/money/exetel-adsl2-telephone-cheapest</link> </item> <item><title>Nice Guy Syndrome</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> When I start hearing the same message coming at me from multiple  independent sources, that usually gets my attention. This year I&#8217;ve had  several sources giving me the message that women want men with backbone  who they can “push up against”. They get tired and ultimately resentful  of <em>Nice Guys</em> who always yield powerlessly to them, and everyone else.</p><p>I listened to an interview by David DeAngelo (of <a href="http://chick-magnet.net/links/dydeb">Double Your Dating</a> fame) talking with Robert Glover described what is wrong with Nice Guys  most succinctly by quoting a comment from his ex-wife, who said “How  would I know that you could ever stand up <em>for</em> me, if you can&#8217;t even stand up <em>to</em> me?”. Robert calls it <em>Nice Guy Syndrome</em>, and has even written a book titled <a href="http://www.jdoqocy.com/click-3556402-10281551?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.ebooks.com%2Fcj.asp%3FIID%3D284872&#38;cjsku=284872" target="_top"> No More Mr. Nice Guy!</a><img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/image-3556402-10281551" border="0" alt=" Nice Guy Syndrome" width="1" height="1" title="Nice Guy Syndrome" /> He points out that while Nice Guys think that what they are doing&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/relationships/nice-guy-syndrome.html" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/relationships/nice-guy-syndrome.html">Nice Guy Syndrome</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/relationships/nice-guy-syndrome.html</link> </item> <item><title>Resolving The Money Riddle by Paul Blackburn</title> <description><![CDATA[<p><!-- google_ad_section_start --><br /> <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MoneyRiddle.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-261" title="Resolving The Money Riddle" src="http://grahamstoney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/MoneyRiddle.jpg" alt="MoneyRiddle Resolving The Money Riddle by Paul Blackburn" width="118" height="189" /></a>Paul Blackburn wanted to call his latest book <em>How I went from Sweet FA to $10 Million a year in 18 Months</em>, but his wife and business partner Mary felt this was an inappropriate business title and they settled on <em><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/money/resolving-money-riddle-paul-blackburn">Resolving The Money Riddle</a></em> instead. Mischievous as ever, Paul still managed to slip his preferred title onto the front cover as the tag line.</p><p>The theme of the book is that the most important factor in your  financial success, or that of your business, is the grey matter between  your ears. As in other areas of life, our mindset is everything. For  Paul, running a business isn&#8217;t about the money; it&#8217;s a personal  development opportunity that will push your boundaries at every turn. In  other words, it&#8217;s about how you develop as a human being.</p><p>To be successful you&#8217;ll need to believe that you can do it to&#8230; <a href="http://grahamstoney.com/money/resolving-money-riddle-paul-blackburn" class="read_more"><em>Continue reading&#8230;</em></a></p><p><a href="http://grahamstoney.com/money/resolving-money-riddle-paul-blackburn">Resolving The Money Riddle by Paul Blackburn</a> is a post from: <a href="http://grahamstoney.com">Graham Stoney: Writer, Speaker, Communicator</a></p> ]]></description><link>http://grahamstoney.com/money/resolving-money-riddle-paul-blackburn</link> </item> </channel> </rss>
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