I've been working like a man possessed for the past few months on a new project to help men build self-confidence. I know what it's like to lack confidence as a man, and frankly it sucks because every other area of your life suffers. Sure, I learned plenty of coping mechanisms so that at times I may have appeared confident, but that wasn't what was going on inside. Some days, it still isn't. And since this has been one of my greatest challenges in life, I want to help other in guys facing it too.

Self-confidence is an awareness that you have the ability to rise to whatever challenge life throws at you. It's also a sense of being at ease with yourself in any situation, and with who you are as a man. Confidence is the single most important asset that a man can possess, because it determines how we respond to challenges and how well everything else in our life goes.

To help out I've recently created The Confident Man Project site to help guys build self-confidence, including the Confident Man ebook with a step-by-step program for men who are really serious. Guys, check it out and share the articles you like with your mates.

PS: Ladies: Sorry, this is secret men's business. Nothing to see here. Move along now.


I combine trauma awareness, emotional healing and comedy to heal painful events from your past, so you can live a future life you love; and have fun doing it.


Nicole · June 8, 2011 at 5:12 pm

Why is it you say move on ladies nothing to see here. You do not think that some of what helps men be more confident can help women also? Sorry I just find that pretty sexiest.

    Graham · June 8, 2011 at 5:33 pm

    I think you missed the humour there. Primarily, choosing to target only men allows me to be more specific and direct with my audience. Much of what I recommend would probably also work for women, but some of the material is gender specific because there are differences between the sexes. I can't claim to speak from personal experience what undermines a woman's self-confidence, because that hasn't been my journey.

Kris Cahill · April 9, 2011 at 1:34 pm

As a lady who is also a full time professional psychic reader, healer, teacher, and writer, I want to validate that men are having a revolution, and it's a big one. I am seeing so many more male clients and students in my practice.

The old pictures about what it means to be a man, and what male energy is about, are going away. Men are freeing themselves - well, some of them are, anyway.

This doesn't mean that we women get off scot free. It's all about growth now, change, evolution, and a new set of pictures.

Good luck with your own work and your book! It's good timing. 🙂

Peter · January 4, 2011 at 10:03 pm

Hi Graham

I found your book very helpful and think that the name change is very apt. Being better with women is just one of the many benefits that your is helpful with, not the only thing (which a lot of guys don't fully understand).
Sometimes difficulties with one aspect of live distracted from many other aspects where problems lie and you address this well.
You have helped me face up to serious issues that I have put of for way too long and have been a very helpful guide.

    Graham · January 9, 2011 at 6:15 pm

    Thanks Peter... I'm really glad you found it helpful!

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